Hi Mandy
In Sept 2000, I had scar tissue removed from my right temporal lobe, I was diagnosed in 1986 age 23, and it took a lot of my dear mum's time to get the doctors to consider me for surgery, it's thanks to her that I had it done. I was seizure free for five wonderful years, I didn't even have an aura, and I used to talk about it as though it was someone I used to know who had epilepsy, and not myself. I had the operation done in London, I met my brain surgeon a few times before the op, and he was very helpful and answered all my questions, he put me at ease the morning of the op, and he came into my room, sat on the bed and made it sound as if he was going to change a car tyre, not stick his hands in my head!
I hope I haven't put you off by saying that my epilepsy came back, I'm just waiting for a date to have my right Hippocampus removed, as I have sclerosis of it, and that explains why I have such a bad short term memory. Do you know what caused your epilepsy to start? I was a forceps delivery, and they caused scar tissue on my right temporal lobe. I had five brilliant years, and if this op gives me another five I would be happy, of course it was a complete nightmare when it came back again, I had no warning, I wasn't doing anything particularly stressful, I was at work, but I had taken and passed my driving test, got a great new job, and life was fantastic, all my friends and family said I was like a different person, I suppose I was, I don't go too far on my own at the moment, but I used to love jumping into my car, and going off for a drive, or to visit people.
I'm trying to stay positive with this second operation, I've been given a chance that a lot of people won't be given, one guy I was in hospital with was told he didn't have a focus, and so surgery wasn't an option, poor Steve is stuck with epilepsy after being badly smashed up in a car accident, so I do feel fortunate to be in this position.
On the light hearted side of things, I was more worried about my hair being messed up, they only shaved the part they were working on, so I did look a bit like a punk rocker for a few months! I always have to make light of things, that's just the way I am, always the joker, and I've asked the surgeon if he'll put a zip in this time, just in case I have to go back in another five years.
All the best to you Mandy, keep in touch and let us know what you decide, it would be great to hear from you. Take care.
Best Wishes
Elaine